For the boy: You are not a machine of sudden hungers. Your body is not a weapon, nor a tool for conquest. The surge of hormones is not a command; it is a question. "What kind of person will you touch? And how will you hold that weight?" Real education teaches him that strength without gentleness is just destruction. That silence is not consent. That to be a man is not to take, but to receive the trust of another human being—and to guard it with more care than a flame in wind.
Usually the first sign of puberty, often starting between ages 8 and 13. For the boy: You are not a machine of sudden hungers