The foundation of bully bonding is the "us versus them" mentality. In this dynamic, the group’s sense of superiority is not earned through merit but is instead manufactured by highlighting the perceived flaws of a target. By pointing outward at a victim, group members divert attention away from their own vulnerabilities and internal conflicts. The act of bullying serves as a recurring ritual that reinforces the boundaries of the "in-group." To participate is to be safe; to remain silent or defend the victim is to risk becoming the next target.
"At your locker. I didn't mean to dent it. I was trying to hit the trash can across the hall. Missed."
The Hidden Driver of Harm: Understanding "Bully Bonding" It’s one of the most confusing things for a parent or teacher to witness: a group of kids, normally kind on their own, suddenly turning into a pack to target a peer. Why does this happen? The answer often lies in a psychological phenomenon known as bully bonding
Bullying Information - Heartland Elementary - Jordan School District
